Features

Integration of the Erotic and Sacred: He challenges the traditional religious separation of spirituality and sexuality, arguing that the "erotic self" is a vital piece of the spiritual journey.

Liberative Theology: He draws from womanist, disability, and indigenous theological projects to move away from singular, authoritative "moralities" toward contextual, human-flourishing ethics.

Spiritual Direction: As a trained spiritual director, he focuses on "holding space" for individuals—particularly spiritual leaders and LGBTQ+ folk—to process religious wounding and shame.

"Radically Promiscuous Love": He uses this provocative phrasing to describe Christ’s love, emphasizing a grace that is inclusive and expansive.

Scholarly & Contemplative (The "Resourced" Authority): His voice is grounded in rigorous theological study at institutions like Princeton Theological Seminary, Harvard Divinity School, and General Theological Seminary. He brings theological and spiritual curiosity to his work, emphasizing a deep respect for listening for the Holy Spirit in silence. Event Planner Appeal: Signals institutional reliability, intellectual safety, and deep roots in Christian tradition.

Liberative & Prophetic (The "Reliable" Visionary): He does not shy away from challenging the traditional theological quest for a singular, authoritative theology of sex. His voice advocates for an ethical, justice-based approach to sexuality that listens to marginalized voices, including womanist, disability, and indigenous theologies. Event Planner Appeal: Promises a progressive, forward-moving, and transformative dialogue.


Warmly Incarnational (The "Relatable" Guide): Despite his academic credentials, his tone remains deeply human, bringing a "warmhearted presence" that helps heal religious wounds. He speaks from the lived reality of being a queer man who has been in a loving relationship with his husband since 1995. Seeker Appeal: Creates a safe, highly empathetic space for individuals navigating their own shame and spiritual journeys.

Erotically Integrated (The "Real" Truth-Teller): He addresses actual sex, sexual ethics, and sexual practice directly, filling a void left by the religious establishment. He frames erotic self-care as essential for spiritual wholeness, emphasizing that our bodies and erotic selves matter. Seeker/Planner Appeal: Establishes him as a rare, candid authority on the integration of spirituality and sexuality.


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